When silence is the means of communication

I often ask myself, why I want to be in silence at home when I can do many things outside. I didn’t find any reason other than security. Security is something which you need implicitly in whatever you do. You may not be keen in assessing whether it is secure or not, however the impact is huge and there is every chance that you will get restless, when you find a little bit of insecurity in that premises. I think this is one of the reasons why many people don’t visit their friends house or relatives house. One other thing is, home is a place where security resides. Though you stay at home doing nothing, you feel like staying there rather than staying somewhere else.

The other important thing I want to state here is, the communication through silence between two persons. Let me tell you what I mean here. When I stay with my close ones (really close ones. not just for namesake), even though I don’t have anything to talk, I just want to stay with them. I do not know what makes me to do that, however I like to do that, to tell the truth, I need it. I thought of the reason many times, however nothing came to my mind “why am I doing it”. Then, I think, the reason is security. If I stay with them, I feel more secure in the company of those people. This security is beyond normal security, It states the imposition that the world makes on you; it states the ill-will of the surroundings. In those people’s presence you can forget everything and keep your mind off thinking about the things that will pull into oblivion, You can block some of the ill-thoughts that come in to your mind. You may not know why you want to stop those thoughts; then comes the philosophy of turning thoughts into actions which in turn makes you an evil person, which is against the law of nature. So the balance for this is, staying with your closed /loved ones where you can be heard exactly as what you say in a very confident manner
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I am not just talking about your physical presence with your close ones. In many cases you must have heard your friends talking to their close ones saying “you tell me”, “No you tell me”. And this goes beyond your imagination and screws you and makes you feel why these people are talking when there is nothing to talk. Here comes the reason, they are in the are in the presence of each othere and they don’t want to come out of that feeling. This is the nature of the living beings. If you call it love, I call it as the synonym of security in this context.